THE CASTRO, MARIELA AND THE SYNDROME OF THE CONTRACEPTIVE SIMULATION.

THE CASTRO, MARIELA AND THE SYNDROME OF THE CONTRACEPTIVE SIMULATION.

  THE ETERNAL PSYCHIATRIC TRANSTOR OF THE CASTROS AND OF MARIELA TO CAST YOU THE FAULT OF FAILURES AND PROTESTS THAT LAST EMERGED IN THE POPULATION TO AN EXTERNAL ENEMY EITHER THE EMPIRE OR THE CUBANS OF MIAMI.

  Typical is the case of the protest of the members of the TGGB organization and the multiple failures of Cuban communism-I will not mention now, the list would be too long, to look for an internal or external enemy of the typical failures that countries have always committed.

   Communists around the world. The last example: Venezuela."The problem is that you can not get along with yourself, and that's why we tend to blame others."

  This explains why it costs us so much to accept that we have made a mistake. "Everything negative bothers us and blaming the other is a great resource," Martínez Lahuerta completes, "because the mind prefers to disengage from what a negative consequence brings."But, above all, we must avoid living installed in the thought Steve Urkel, of "I've been me?"

   Experts explain that those who tend to attribute the responsibility of their failures to others are people with a hyper subjective perception of reality and a high level of intolerance to negative emotions, but they also emphasize that each one is the driver of their emotions. own life.

  But the conclusion, according to the authorized voices, is that the problem is not to err, but to err many times in the same. And, beyond that, the problem lies in erring and, in addition, becoming a Steve Urkel.

   The human being falls again and again in a typical error: look for guilty outside of himself, for any problem. If we succeed, it is our virtue, but if we err, it will surely be the responsibility of the other.

  "If you close the door to all errors, the truth will also be left out."-Rabindranath Tagore"

   Fear of a negative evaluation, or fear of being judged negatively by others and incur their contempt and disdain; fear that others think we are stupid, weak, inept and maybe even that we are crazy ».

  Crark and Beck-Before an event to which we blame an external factor. We become apathetic spectators and at the same time complicit in the non-assistance to someone who needs help. What is known as "spreading responsibility". 

  We are all guilty and none at the same time.And finally, we introduce the figure of the "selfish empathic" to reduce the emotional discomfort that generates us being witnesses of the suffering of others.

   "If people were only responsible for what they do consciously, idiots would be free of blame in advance"-Milan Kundera-

   IT IS A TYPICAL PARANOID SYNDROME OF THOSE WHO DETECT POWER.

   The main cause of the lies is the child's fear of rejection, of losing the appreciation of others, a fear that incites blame to circumstances, to other people's factors or to others.Making excuses is so common for some people that sometimes it does not matter anymore if the argument is reasonable or not, it is enough to think that no one can deny it.

  Faced with a failure, they justify themselves and blame others or the circumstances. Victims are made to be recognized for their merits.It is a common trait in paranoid personality disorder. In this, the symptomatology consists of a generalized and unjustified tendency to interpret the actions of others as aggressive or threatening. 

   They are people who feel exploited by others, distrustful, jealous, often react aggressively in a disguised manner. It is estimated that between 0.5 and 2.5 percent of the general population suffers from this problem. These people rarely seek professional help.

  The role of victim is assumed guilt to all and all of the negative things that happen in order to get attention and enjoy the pity of others. The complaints and claims, surreptitiously, are transmitting a clear message: feel guilt. 

  They are people who go as martyrs for life.In general, when people face difficulties, they look for solutions. But those with victimhood do not do it. His talent is to find excuses. Their behavior is aimed at denying their faults and doing away with responsibilities.

  Victimization consists of defending oneself from anxiety and fear, projecting the difficult situations of daily life into people and external situations, and the way to achieve this is to be mistreated.But since not everyone enters the game, they can easily reach resentment, anger or the desire for revenge. And this is achieved by attacking physically or emotionally.

 These people, in some way, enjoy their suffering and, unconsciously, see it as a means of self-gratification and (in some way) personal achievement.But all this must have some advantage. To understand what is